Advice please

[anirban3598]

Hi

Im looking for some advise to help one of my friends. I think think this forum would be the best place to get some advice.

This friend of mine is a little awkward socially, he has this shy side in himself and lacks self confidence as well. I have been taking him out to public gatherings. We do have a great time but he still is reluctant to meet/approach new people although he wants to see himself more outgoing and open to meet people.

Any NLP techniques that you may know to help him out would be appreciated. create more self confidence. It will be great if somebody help him discover himself.

Thanks you.

[PhoenixDawn]

There are lots of techniques that would easily help your friend with NLP, EFT, Hypnotherapy etc., however, I would recommend that your friend obtains help with someone qualified to deliver these techniques.

Another aspect, which is the first thing that strikes me, is that you are enquiring on behalf of your friend. A major step in gaining the confidence etc. that your friend desires will be achieved by your friend seeking/obtaining help in their own right, - as opposed to your questions being rather like healing by proxy - which never works!

Until your friend is ready to obtain help in their own right, you will be hard pressed to feed them any techniques and gain any results.

Personally I would never give techniques for someone to use via someone else - much rather deal with the person in question so that all bases are covered and I can ask the appropriate questions to offer the best results.

[hypno-therapist]

Great advice Dawn!

In the clinic here we get a lot of calls from 'friends and family' and always encourage them to get the person in question to phone.

Sometimes this is not always doable for the person, so in that instance we arrange a pre-session meeting with them and the friend or family member inquiring.