Jealousy making you turn Green? Turn to Hypnotherapy

[hypno-therapist]

Hi All,

Cain killed Abel because he was jealous of him. Da Vinci Code says St. Peter was jealous of Jesus? affection towards Mary Magdalene. Jealousy has been a part of human existence since the time our forefathers walked this earth, and even today it is one of the most common emotions that affect people across the world. We could go as far as saying that it?s the most human of all emotions, and it?s natural to feel jealous from time to time. But if it is this human, why is it called the Green Monster? It?s because if jealousy goes unchecked it can bring about obsessive behavior, uncontrollable anger and can even lead to violence. It is at such a stage that intervention is required to keep jealousy at bay, and this is where a session of Hypnotherapy could help you.

Jealousy is a result of an overactive imagination, and is further fuelled by insecurity that a person might be afflicted with. When this imagination and insecurity coincide, what takes place are ugly scenes, in the mind of the person who is jealous. A simple action or word spoken by your partner can take on epic proportions, as you play out scenes of infidelity over and over in your mind.

In most cases this suspicion is unfounded and can only lead to hurting and mud-slinging. If one lets it remain that way, a lot of anger and bitterness can be left festering in both the partners, which could eventually lead to the death of what otherwise could have been a happy relationship.

How can hypnotherapy help you in curing an emotional problem such as jealousy? One of the first things to be established when you consult a practitioner for hypnotherapy is that your jealousy is the result of immense love for your partner. But they will also tell you at the same time that the way you channelise this love might be misguided. Your intentions might be noble, but the route you take to demonstrate the love is not right. Controlling someone?s life to protect them is not the best thing to do. In love, one needs to let go. And this is exactly what you will learn.

Hypnotherapy makes you aware of the core issues in your past that act as triggers for this jealousy. It helps you create a positive self image, so that the insecurities are done away with. It helps you in being calm, confident and positive; and you will be surprised at the changes you will see in your partner?s behavior. Remember negativity breeds negativity and the best gift to give yourself and your partner is to make efforts to get out of these negative emotions and work towards nurturing a relationship.

[The Fantomaya]

How can hypnotherapy help you in curing an emotional problem such as jealousy? One of the first things to be established when you consult a practitioner for hypnotherapy is that your jealousy is the result of immense love for your partner. But they will also tell you at the same time that the way you channelise this love might be misguided. Your intentions might be noble, but the route you take to demonstrate the love is not right. Controlling someone?s life to protect them is not the best thing to do. In love, one needs to let go. And this is exactly what you will learn.

I wish I read this before. It could have saved my relationship. I am not sure if jealousy is my main weakness when it comes to relationships. I think it's more of insecurity. Or does it come hand in hand?

I am sure that hypnotheraphy will help me immensely. I'll just have to find a hypnotherapist in my area.

[hypno-therapist]

Hi The Fantomaya

[lightseeker]

Please tell me if you're going to make an insecurity mp3! I've never really had problems with jealousy, but I just discovered I had problems with insecurity, especially when I develop deeper relationships with people. I'm not used to having really deep relationships so that's a bit of a new discovery, sadly enough

[littlefranciscan]

What is a really good desciption of jealousy? Are there different types of Jealousy, different degrees?

Has everyone sometime in their life experienced this..Truthfully, can we say we have not?

[hypno-therapist]

[The Fantomaya]

[littlefranciscan]

Is it Jealousy to want to receive the same treatment as others? Say for example a child sees others getting special favors, and begins to feel inwardly that this is unfair that the others get favors while he/she does not. Outwardly, he/she shows signs of disappointment and thus backs away from the situation that appears to be partial to the others, while leaving him/her out..

Would a situation such as this be jealousy or would it be a just desire to receive the same treatment of others?

[CloudxxY]

In my opinion, I think the situation you stated isn\'t jealousy. Jealousy should build over time. If the person see\'s the other person getting things that he or she can not get, it is just a greedy feeling inside the person who can not get it. Jealousy will occur when the person sees the person who get always gets the stuff that he or she can not get, this builds jealousy.

For example if you see a guy with another hot girl, at first you just envy him but over time you wil be jealous of him. By over time, I mean that you would be seeing him with the hot girl once in a while.

[Trooper]

I totally agree with you Cloud because I know the feeling. Say if you saw a guy with new clothes and you have old ones, at first you would just envy and wish you had some new ones like him. Then each day you see him with new clothes over and over, a jealousy will start building up in you. So basically it is envy then jealous.

[littlefranciscan]

Ok, let us take the discussion further. Are these feelings natural: jealousy or envy. Or is it something that is learned and something that can be completely controlled.

[Trooper]

Enviness, I believe comes natural. Jealousy is considered a sin in most religions; therfore, it is something that is controlable. Jealousy, in my opinion, is just an advanced stage of enviness. Jealousy is quite normal but it shouldn't be a big deal in your life. If you live life of a jealous person, you are insecured and a person that you are not. You are just a person who you want to be but will probably never be because of jealousy clouding your mind. Jealousy is something that is universal; it can be prevented, passed on, or something that you have to experience in life.

An example of jealousy being passed on is when your parents would tell you to study hard and grow up to be rich; have a nice house, family and car. You think about it, and they are right. But you see people that already have it and why you think why don't you? You envy these people and later on turn to jealousy. I am jealous of Donald Trump and people of his kind, why are they so rich!?

[Paddy Landau]

[littlefranciscan]

I am grateful for these explanations..I do teach children and I must confess that jealousy/envy is something I never knew how to explain.

I say these are characteristics we want to steer clear of but never knew how to say what exactly they are.

Now ..envy is different then jealousy; is envy a stage before jealousy.

You envy a person before you become jealous of them; is this correct?

[Paddy Landau]